Personal coaching & counselling
A place to understand, rebuild and move forward.
Support for personal growth, trauma and loss, identity, relationships and intimacy. Inclusive guidance for individuals and couples — shaped around your story, your pace and your goals.
Personal. Open. Without judgement.
Online and in Capelle aan den IJssel
How I can help
No standard route. A place to understand what you need.
You do not need to know exactly which type of support fits before you arrive. Start with the area closest to your situation and we will make it concrete together.
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Coaching
Coaching
Personal growth when life changes, hurts or feels stuck.
- A new beginning
- (C)PTSD & trauma
- Grief
- Religious trauma
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Identity
Identity
Space to explore who you are and how you want to live authentically.
- LGBTQIA+
- Gender identity
- Transition
- Coming out
03
Relationships
Relationships
Support around connection, boundaries, conflict and rebuilding.
- Relationship counselling
- Communication
- Toxic relationships
- Domestic violence
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Intimacy
Intimacy
Open, respectful conversations about sexuality, desire and kink.
- Sexuality
- Intimacy
- Boundaries
- Kink
About Lux
Professional support with room for the whole story.
Lux is a coach, certified counsellor and lived-experience expert. Her work supports individuals and couples navigating personal growth, trauma, loss, relationships, identity, gender and intimacy.
As a former Jehovah’s Witness, she also brings personal insight to work around religious trauma. Her approach is inclusive, open-minded and shaped around the person in front of her.
- Coach & certified counsellor
- Lived-experience perspective
- LGBTQIA+ and gender inclusive
- Individuals and couples
Sessions
Support that fits real life.
Sessions can take place in the practice in Capelle aan den IJssel, by video, or — where appropriate — with additional online support.
In the practice
A calm, homelike space where time and attention take priority.
Video / Teams
A full session from your own environment, with the option to involve your partner.
Beyond the session
Worksheets, visual exercises and practical tools can support longer trajectories.
Standard individual session
€150
1–1.5 hours · includes summary and advice by email
Fees can be tailored to the intensity of the support and the trajectory.
Experiences
What clients say
Every trajectory is personal. These short responses come from the existing Coaching by Lux site.
It was a difficult road, but it helped me so much. I finally have more control over my life thanks to Lux.
PTSD / Trauma Coaching
Our marriage is so much better with the help of our coach. We communicate better and are happier together.
Relationship Therapy
I now know much better who I am and what I want in my life.
LGBTQIA+ coaching
You do not need to have everything figured out before taking the first step.