Coaching & counselling · Capelle aan den IJssel + online
Clearer thinking. Stronger footing. A way forward.
Inclusive coaching and counselling for adults and couples navigating trauma, loss, identity, relationships and intimacy — personal, open and without judgement.
What can we work on?
No one-size-fits-all route. Support shaped around what is happening in your life.
You do not need to arrive with the right label for what you are experiencing. We start with what is happening now and make the next steps concrete together.
Coaching & recovery
Growth, loss & recovery
Space to regain direction, resilience and a sense of control.
- A new beginning
- (C)PTSD & trauma
- Grief
- Religious trauma
Identity
Identity & transition
Explore who you are and how you want to live authentically.
- LGBTQIA+
- Gender identity
- Transition
- Coming out
Relationships
Relationships & connection
Support around communication, boundaries and rebuilding.
- Relationship counselling
- Communication
- Toxic relationships
- Domestic violence
Intimacy
Intimacy & sexuality
Open conversations about desire, boundaries, sexuality and kink.
- Sexuality
- Intimacy
- Boundaries
- Kink
About Lux
Professional support with room for the whole story.
Lux is a coach, certified counsellor and lived-experience expert. Her work supports individuals and couples navigating personal growth, trauma, loss, relationships, identity, gender and intimacy.
As a former Jehovah’s Witness, she also brings personal insight to work around religious trauma. Her approach is inclusive, open-minded and shaped around the person in front of her.
- Coach & certified counsellor
- Lived-experience perspective
- LGBTQIA+ and gender inclusive
- Individuals and couples
Sessions
Support that fits real life.
Sessions can take place in the practice in Capelle aan den IJssel, by video, or — where appropriate — with additional online support.
In the practice
A calm, homelike space where time and attention take priority.
Video / Teams
A full session from your own environment, with the option to involve your partner.
Beyond the session
Worksheets, visual exercises and practical tools can support longer trajectories.
Standard individual session
€150
1–1.5 hours · includes summary and advice by email
Fees can be tailored to the intensity of the support and the trajectory.
Experiences
What clients say
Every trajectory is personal. These short responses come from the existing Coaching by Lux site.
It was a difficult road, but it helped me so much. I finally have more control over my life thanks to Lux.
PTSD / Trauma Coaching
Our marriage is so much better with the help of our coach. We communicate better and are happier together.
Relationship Therapy
I now know much better who I am and what I want in my life.
LGBTQIA+ coaching
You do not need to have everything figured out before taking the first step.