About Lux
An open-minded coach with professional and personal experience.
Coaching by Lux is built around the belief that people deserve room to tell their story without first fitting themselves into a box.

Support that is allowed to feel human
Lux is a coach, certified counsellor and lived-experience expert. Her practice supports individuals and couples around personal growth, (C)PTSD and trauma, grief, relationships, LGBTQIA+ topics, gender identity and transition, intimacy and kink.
As a former Jehovah’s Witness, Lux also has personal experience of the impact of a high-control religious environment. That combination of professional training and lived experience is an important part of the identity of Coaching by Lux.
- Inclusive and LGBTQIA+ friendly
- Space for complex or taboo-breaking subjects
- Individual and couple support
- Online and in Capelle aan den IJssel

A practice beyond standard boxes
Coaching by Lux uses a flexible approach: sessions in person or by video, support with practical worksheets and exercises, and in some trajectories additional online or on-call guidance. The principle is that the form of support should fit the client’s situation, not the other way around.
Subjects that can be difficult to discuss elsewhere — gender, kink, sexuality, religious trauma or destructive relationships — are explicitly given space within the practice without judgement.